Who Needs a Professional Bridal Consultant??

With today’s hectic lifestyles, many bridal couples and their
families do not have the time for the detailed planning and
work that a beautiful Wedding requires.

In addition to helping make your wedding dreams come true
within your budget – and perhaps saving you from costly
mistakes – a Consultant will save you time.

Why can’t I do the planning myself?
Of course you can do the planning yourself, and there can be
a great deal of fun in doing so. But it also can be a hassle:
managing timelines while you are working full time, checking
out many sources for each vendor category, making sure that
all the details are in place and worrying about whether you’re
getting the best deal and whether everything will turn out all
right. An ABC bridal professional has the training and
experience to make it all come together while you relax.

What qualities should I look for in a Consultant?

It is important to look for one with professional credentials.
You should be very comfortable with the person. You will be
spending a lot of time together planning one of the major rites
of passage in your life.

Do I need a contract with my Consultant?

You should have some agreement in writing. While some people
prefer a formal contract, a letter of agreement signed by both of
you is usually enough. This is a formal contract which spells out
fees, payment schedules, and what each will do. It’s no different
from signing off with a Banquet hall.

Member of the Association of Bridal Consultants

Ethnic Weddings and Traditions

Ethnic Weddings:
Most ethnic wedding traditions are hundreds – possible thousands
of years old. Native American, Indian and Jewish are especially old.
In some countries, traditions are dying as the younger generation turn
to modern western practices. White wedding gowns are becoming
increasingly popular with Asian brides.

Most of the wedding traditions adopted in the West did not originate
in the West. For example:
a) A father walking his daughter down the isle is a symbol of
passing ownership of his daughter over to her new husband.
b) The receiving line allows the couple to bring good luck
to everyone they touch.
c) The wedding ring is seen as a symbol of a couple’s never-
ending commitment.

Some ethnic wedding traditions are rarely practiced in the new “modern
society” However, others are experiencing resurgence as couples
acknowledge their heritage by invoking the traditions of their ancestors.
Some couples are combining multiple ethnic wedding traditions – both the
old and the new to create a wedding uniquely their own.

Ethnic Bridal attire is a thing of beauty and pride.
African Wedding Attire:
Traditional Native African Brides wear a headpiece called a “Gele”, a
loose fitting wrap skirt called an “Iro” and a shawl called an “Iborum”
with a short loose blouse called a “Buba” all made out of matching fabrics.

The Groom wears a pair of slacks called “Sokoto”, a shirt called a “Bubba”
a long flowing pullover type jacket called an “Agbada” and a rounded
box –hat called a “Fila”. Traditions do vary according to tribe.

Hindu Wedding:
Traditional Hindu attire varies with region, however many wear saries
in red and white, colors representing fertility, wealth and purity.

The hands and feet of the bride is painted by a female member of
the family in hena, a red dye which is referred to as the “Mehendi ceremony”

Japanese Wedding Attire:
Japanese Brides often wear colorful kimonos, along with a tsuno kakushi
which is a big hood that covers the hair. It is said, the tsuno kakushi hides
the bride’s horns and show her obedience to her new husband. The bride
changes in to a new kimono following the ceremony, and the fabric from
the bride’s kimonos is often made into bedding and passed down to future
generations.

Mexican Weddings:
Authentic Mexican Brides wore mantilla veils and either a slim dress
wit a bolero jacket or a Flamenco-style dress with layers of ruffles
at the hem. Instead of carrying flowers, Mexican Brides carried brightly
colored fans. Mexican grooms wore Matador’s outfits – which consisted
of bolero jackets with form-fitting pants.

AFTER THE WEDDING

So you have survived the Wedding Day and the honeymoon helped to mend
shattered nerves. Now it is time to enjoy your new beginnings and play
house for real.

Please take time to go through all the wonderful gifts you have received
and give thought to their many uses. Break them down in categories and
put them in their rightful places so that they will be at your finger tips
when you need them.

Most couples take special care in choosing table wears: dishes, glasses,
cutlery etc. These gifts are to be used and shared with family and friends.
Start by having a romantic dinner for two, using your finest china and crystals
complete with candle light. So you are not a good cook? NO PROBLEM!!

First you both sit down and plan a menu, with list in hand, head for on of
the fine food stores specializing in gourmet prepared foods or whatever
you desire. Set a pretty table, have your favourite music playing and enjoy.

Your next challenge is to entertain guests starting with the in-laws, together
or apart. Don't try too hard to impress, just be yourself and everything will
be fine. Do you know the correct way to set a table, formal or casual? If not
a trip to your library will give you all the information necessary.

HAPPY HOUSE KEEPING. I would love to know how you make out.

Ethereal Weddings & Event Planning

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